Relationship Problems and Advice

Do you have any reason not to trust her?
If the answer is "no" then you've got to stop beating yourself up over something thats not gonna happen.

 

Offer to pick her up so she doesnt have to stay over, see what her reply is?

 

Marie

Just had a text from Mrs Wrigley, she is on her Christmas Do, some of the girls have decided to book into a hotel in town and she wont be home.

Should I be worried, I am really, might drive down and find her, or should I trust her

Cheers
Wrigley Dr Haywood, replies.... yes you should be worried i rekon she has been cocked more times than elmer fudds shotgun.

 

nothing to worry about mate

she took a jumbo packet of condoms i heard

 

The mistrust of her, I believe, is a bigger issue than the actual thing she is doing. I don't think she's cheating on you, but it would be hard to know as I don't know her past. Is she a recovering alcoholic or addict? Try to think of what has caused this mistrust and explain to get when she gets back that you still are hurting and are having trouble trusting her.

Good luck

 

Thanks for your concern and advice, there may be nothing to it, she has been fine since she got home, looking forward to Christmas now

 

Broke up with my girlfriend of almost 2 years today. She's begging for me back (as has happened before, she's good at making me want the relationship again) but it's gone too far now, she's done so much that I don't agree with. Today I happened to be on twitter looking for info about the Celtic announcement and happened upon her account (I don't use my account but she follows it) and saw some posts aimed directly at me and another one which confirmed that she was lying about something I forgave her for a few weeks back. One of her newest posts was "you think you're Irish? Well you're not and it's hilarious" or something. I actually don't think i'm Irish (I don't support any nation in any sport, don't have Irish flags, don't talk about Irish republicanism unless I'm asked for an opinion or am involved in a conversation with like minded people) but she clearly thinks that my political views (not supporting the monarchy, having left wing views etc) and enjoyment of Irish music means that i think i'm Irish. I know it was aimed at me because it was on a day where we were drunk and listening to the Wolfetones and the Dubliners.

I was in shock that she could be like that. She's telling me she needs me and is crying hysterically and causing havoc in her mother's house, asking me to "please please get back with me". I hate having to deal with the constant texts and phonecalls and I have been in this situation on more than one occasion and we ended up back together.

What is the best way to deal with this type of situation?

Sorry for rambling btw, in the process of becoming inebriated.

 

ShootTP firstly block her calls and texts. Your phone provider can help do that. It's never easy breaking up but obviously for you the trust issue has been broken and you need to take time out and eventually find yourself another woman.

Getting drunk isn't the answer and it could end up with you doing something you regret. If possible I'd get away on a wee holiday somewhere and give yourself some "me" time. If a holiday isn't an option go play football with your mates etc. Just do some things for a while that you enjoy doing.

Good luck with whatever you decide to do.

 

So the girl I was with just broke up with me. This morning I got a text saying "I did some thinking and I feel I don't feel like continuing to go out with you". So seriously * man, she basically gave me the its not you its me thing. I replied back and asked why and no response. One of my friends told me she might be getting back with her ex, so idk!

 

Is she like a close friend?