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Discussion in 'TalkCeltic Pub' started by strachansdaman, Jul 7, 2012.

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  1. strachansdaman

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    before anyone replies go to a doctor then dont because i wont i just want to know why i feel the way i do?Live with my cracking partner who is expecting our first child in august Got made redundant in january but we had a bit put by and was getting mortgage paid so wasnt heavy skint but was a moany bassa through all this,now iv got a job again mrs is due to knock off next week but i just feel like * all the time,constantly moaning at her for nothing dont want to go for a pint way the bhoys or my bro,just feel as if a hate everything and everyone,even my mates seriously do my head in!! what is it?
     
    strachansdaman, Jul 7, 2012
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  2. Highland_Bhoy Gold Member Gold Member

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    You would rather ask a forum full of people you don't know rather than a doctor?
     
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  3. Rude Bhoy

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    You're a *.

    /thread.
     
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  4. strachansdaman

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    aye just the way a feel
     
    strachansdaman, Jul 7, 2012
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  5. strachansdaman

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    a dissagree
     
    strachansdaman, Jul 7, 2012
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  6. mygirlmaria

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    Heading for a wee breakdown mate unless you find a release valve.You cant go around feeling like that for any length of time....you will burst.
    However, i think its good you recognise your symptoms and have taken at least this step of talking on here.Maybe it will help.

    Are you frightened?For yourself, your future, your baby?Do you still love your girl?Do you feel trapped?
     
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  7. Rude Bhoy

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    No, you are.

    I’m a doctor and I recognise the symptoms.
     
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  8. Diane1888 Gold Member Gold Member

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    I get like that a bit when I'm stressed out. You worried about the baby? Worried you will be made redundant again? * off you had to spend your savings?
     
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    Could be depression.. Could be anxiety relating to the impending birth of your child, or could be a mixture of both. You have to see a doctor though. Depression is a deadly condition. Don't let them fob you off with happy pills, by all means take them but you need additional help beyond that. Cognitive therapy is good, and im confident you can get that on the NHS. But anything that looks at rewiring your thinking as opposed to just rebalancing chemicals is good, a mixture of the two is ideal.

    Unless you're being melodramatic in which case it should pass.
     
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  11. strachansdaman

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    Iv felt like this on and off for years,a can be fine then il just think of something to * myself off then im in a pure rager again and 9 times out of 10 the mrs gets it,dont know how shes put up way me for 9 years to be honest,my head is severley fried and everyone thinks am pure life and soul,nobodys got a clue,am naw gonna do harry carry or that but just think im not wired right lol
     
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  12. Soul Rebel

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    are you half female?

    Also if its been going on that long I guess its not anxiety and could still be depression but sounds more like an anger issue. Still treatable, and if you don't know how you're missus puts up with it and you feel bad you really should make an effort to get it sorted.
     
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  14. Rude Bhoy

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    How exactly does she get it?

    That sounds a bit menacing…

    Are you beating her?

    Is this why you don’t want to go to the doctor?
     
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  15. strachansdaman

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    aye could be an anger thing although am naw a violent person,but a do feel pure raging for * that happened years ago then a end up pure raging!! * knows
     
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  16. strachansdaman

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    hahahah naw iv never and would never lift my hand to her she just gets nipped at for the tiniest wee thing
     
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    You could have a chemical imbalance. Anyhow, it would be selfish of you not to see a doctor. If you're really bothered about putting an end to this you'll get off talkceltic for half hour and call the doctors :50:
     
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  18. Rude Bhoy

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    Ah right.

    Well as long as you can control yourself not to get to that level, you’re probably curable :50:
     
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    Do you do any form of excerise?Even golf or something?Any hobbies that you enjoy?
     
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    away and see a doctor :50:
     
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