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Discussion in 'TalkCeltic Pub' started by verdi-y-blanco, Apr 11, 2012.

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  1. verdi-y-blanco

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    Hey guys, I know I never seem to have any positive stories but I'm feeling pretty rough at the moment.

    Last week I asked a girl I worked with out and her reply was 'I'm kinda seeing someone but I would have liked to.'

    I was ok with that but tonight she was on a night out in the bar we work at with the guy shes been seeing. However she seemed to ditch him and pulled one of my colleagues.

    I'm man enough to handle being knocked back but I just feel like I've been seriously lied to and it's hurt my feelings.

    Any advice on how I should handle this when I'm next working with her because it's not as if I can just ignore her?
     
    verdi-y-blanco, Apr 11, 2012
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  2. Mystic Penguin

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    Its not that big a deal. She's only a person don't let her bother you.
     
    Mystic Penguin, Apr 11, 2012
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  3. Twisty . Gold Member

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    Sounds familiar. Noticed your from Stirling.
     
    Twisty, Apr 11, 2012
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  4. UncleHo

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    Like Mystic said, she is just another person, dont let it bother you.
     
    UncleHo, Apr 11, 2012
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  6. Brammer

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    She sounds like a bit of a walk in * wash, looks like you avoided a potential dose.
     
    Brammer, Apr 11, 2012
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    :56::56:
     
    Xavier Woods, Apr 11, 2012
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  8. BelfastCelt88

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    Fully ya legend :56:

    Mate I'd just let it go, just be your normal self. She's obviously not worth it
     
    BelfastCelt88, Apr 11, 2012
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    Whatever you do, always remain professional and polite. Your job is much more important.

    Just noticed you not only live in Stirling, but work in a bar as well. How many bars are there in Stirling? Anyone remembers the one Gary went to?
     
    Silenzio, Apr 11, 2012
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  10. Callum McGregor The Captain Gold Member

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    Sounds like she lied to you in the first place to avoid hurting your feelings.
     
    Callum McGregor, Apr 11, 2012
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  11. celticbhoy1989

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    theres plenty more fish in the sea which are either just as good or better, just go about your work have banter with her and show her what she is missing!
     
    celticbhoy1989, Apr 11, 2012
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  12. Al Bootyerbaws

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    I think she`s tried to let ye down gently mate. Plenty more minge out there, just get tore in about it. :50:
     
    Al Bootyerbaws, Apr 11, 2012
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  13. Jelly+Ice Cream Gold Member Gold Member

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    :56::56::56:

    Stirlings not exactly a wee village, its got quite a few pubs
     
    Jelly+Ice Cream, Apr 11, 2012
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    Could be worse pal, she could've said yeah, then ditched you for another work college, which she had done there. If she's to be believed that is. Gutted for you pal, but as people have said, there's plenty more. At least she didn't walk all over you.
     
    TicFan88, Apr 11, 2012
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  15. AmericanCelt

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    G...Gary?
     
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  16. Dazza

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    Move on quickly and don't let yourself get caught up thinking about her... she sounds like a *
     
    Dazza, Apr 11, 2012
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  17. Cena Never Give Up Gold Member

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  18. greengrocer

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    So says she's seeing another guy, goes out (probably didn't like the guy after a few dates), goes on a work night out and pulls some guy?
    I have to say, and what? She's not committed to anyone, might have had a few drinks and pulls a bloke. It happens.
    As I say, the guy she was seeing it might not have worked out for whatever reason. Doesn't mean she can't kiss another guy on a night out. That's what happens on nights out.

    Wouldn't put me off asking her out again. After all you said she was seeing another guy. By the looks of it now she's not so ask her out and if she says no again then you know where you stand.
     
    greengrocer, Apr 11, 2012
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  19. Twisty . Gold Member

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    On a serious note. Don't get too hung up on her or take it to heart. Everyone has different taste's. Your probably not her type. For instance, I fancy red heads with glasses, hairy upper lips and acne whereas you probably like slim, blondes or brunettes with clear skin and 20/20 vision.
     
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  20. Jelly+Ice Cream Gold Member Gold Member

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    i used to know someone exactly like this, his name was dave :bbpd:
     
    Jelly+Ice Cream, Apr 11, 2012
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