Dumped

I've just been dumped from the girl I love and I'm not taking it easy I've been crying all day I've no idea what to do

 

Sorry to hear. Won't ask what happened as its nobody's business. But just distance yourself l, focus on you, dont be stalking her socials or texting. Find your passions again and hit the gym.

 

It's not an easy time for you mate, I know the feeling only too well. Been there, done that, and wore the t shirt.

I think with time you will get to realise that she was not the right one for you long term, might not seem that way right now, but believe me you will get there. The main thing is to not let it destroy your own self confidence and self esteem. Personally, I don't think any bird is worth that.

She has a different direction in life,and so do you.

Some relationships are only meant to be time sensitive, and to teach you more lifetime experience. I tend to subscribe to that now. Don't hold a grudge against her either, it's not worth it and counter productive, just walk on and look out for the next one.

My Mam used to say to me when I get the old heave ho from an Ex, was " Don't get too upset, she wasn't worthy of you ", move on and the right one will come along at the right time.

I know that was good advice now.

 

Lucky *, now you get to go pump everything in sight!

 

Time is a healer. Just need to try and keep your mind occupied as much as possible, as difficult as that may be.

 

one thing u can do is grow the * up * dafty

 

Never an easy thing to deal with. That said, ALWAYS something that can be navigated by getting back to basics.

You are your own person and that is what's important. Focus on what makes you who you are. You're at the start of a process that will help you evolve, and it's a matter of time till you're back on track.

Good luck man.

 

That sounds really harsh but if it’s purely to do with the OP - it’s actually good advice.I wasted about a year there feeling sorry for myself and in a total rut because my ex basically dumped me.

I was the one who had to say it was over but it was obviously over before then.

Life’s too short forget her and move on.

 

Ffs

 

Here’s me wondering is this a delayed reaction to Jota, Ange or O’Riley leaving?

 

How old are you, and what do you hope would happen announcing it on a football forum …????

 

Have a read:
https://www.rootsrelationaltherapy.com/blogs-for-better-relationships/they-broke-up-with-me-now-what

 

Whether this is real or not, you will get over it.

 

OP is gregg Wallace, pass it on

 

Maybe that his fellow fans who have meant to stick together and be a community of sorts would give him decent advice or something? It’s a Celtic forum and it’s mainly about football but we’ve got a mental health section on the forum for a reason.I’m quite private personally but if someone is brave enough to ask for advice or just to get something off their chest I think that’s a good thing.

 

Have a chug.

 

Probably too used to that, being in a long term relationship.

 

Just to add, the obvious first instinct may be to go 'aw get over it' or 'chin up' etc. It's a man thing. But in this day and age I'd say it's worth taking the compassionate route in responding to the OP.

It's easy for * to be flippant about it when their circumstances are different, but you just never know.

 

Well said!

Hope yer man the OP has somewhere he can go to, or family/friends etc, never a good time of the year for this * especially if there's kids involved.